SEVEN THINGS YOUR MUSLIM WIFE WON'T TELL YOU

<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>7 Things your Muslim wife<br/> won’t tell you<br/> Most men have a hard time<br/> understanding women. Even a woman<br/> they’ve been married to for years. One<br/> minute she’s perfectly fine, the next,<br/> she’s crying like a baby. She complains<br/> about something but when we offer<br/> advice on how to fix it, she still isn’t<br/> satisfied. After several years of marriage<br/> (and counseling) I’ve learned to not<br/> worry so much about what my wife<br/> says. Instead, I should worry about<br/> what she doesn’t say.<br/> 1. Above all, She Wants Your love<br/> When a wife shows her husband less<br/> respect, he in turn shows her less love.<br/> And when a husband shows his wife<br/> less love, she in turn shows him less<br/> respect.<br/> And the vicious cycle repeats itself.<br/> Stop this prophecy before it becomes<br/> self-fulfilling. Show love to your wife.<br/> That’s what she wants. Love her despite<br/> her flaws and quirks.<br/> And Inshallah, she’ll respect you despite<br/> your flaws and quirks.<br/> 2. She’s Bored<br/> It’s the same thing every day.<br/> Week in and week out.<br/> Not only is she bored but she’s also<br/> tired.<br/> She has to care for the kids and run the<br/> household and then pamper you.<br/> Just thinking about doing that every day<br/> makes me want to crawl under my<br/> covers and hide. I can imagine how the<br/> average Muslim housewife must feel.<br/> And let’s not forget about working<br/> woman. Many Muslim women have to<br/> work a full time job as well as hold a<br/> house down.<br/> So brothers, I implore you, make your<br/> wife feel special. Give her a break.<br/> Take her out sometimes. Surprise her<br/> with a surprise meal. Bring her favorite<br/> desert home.<br/> Just do something every now and then<br/> to break the monotony.<br/> 3. She Wants to be Complimented<br/> Appreciation. Everybody wants it. No<br/> one wants to feel as if the hard work<br/> they do goes unnoticed or even worse,<br/> it taken for granted.<br/> Your wife does not have to clean your<br/> dirty clothes. And she does not have to<br/> cook your meals. But she does. And she<br/> does that on top of all the other things<br/> in her life:<br/> Caring for the kids.<br/> Working or going to school.<br/> Striving to be a better Muslimah.<br/> Show your Muslim wife that you<br/> appreciate and are thankful for the<br/> things she does to maintain you and<br/> your family. A simple “thank you” is a<br/> good start.<br/> 4. She’s Insanely Jealous<br/> There’s a reason most women don’t<br/> care for polygamy. Be very careful how<br/> you talk about other women around<br/> your wife. Don’t ever compare your wife<br/> to another woman.<br/> Don’t compare her to some female<br/> movie star.<br/> Don’t compare her to your mother.<br/> Never, ever compare her to your ex-wife<br/> (or other wife!)<br/> She’s wants to know and believe that<br/> she is the center of your universe. So<br/> make her feel that way.<br/> Even the Prophet’s (pbuh) wives got<br/> jealous. Aisha (RA) even got jealous of<br/> Khadijah (RA) who was dead.<br/> Expect, and respect, the same type of<br/> jealousy from your wife.<br/> 5. She Wants You to Help Her become A<br/> Better Muslimah<br/> I can’t stress enough the importance of<br/> men taking the role of leader within<br/> their families.<br/> And that’s the problem with a lot of<br/> Muslim men these days.<br/> Not only are they not being good<br/> leaders, they’re being led by their wives<br/> (or mothers, or other women in their<br/> lives).<br/> Your wife desires and wants you to be<br/> her leader. And what better way to lead<br/> her than to be show her how to be a<br/> better Muslimah?<br/> But you can’t show her how to become<br/> better if you’re not that great either.<br/> Therefore, you have to upgrade your<br/> Iman. You have to improve yourself and<br/> then pass it on to her in a gentle,<br/> respectful way.<br/> 6. She Doesn’t Like to Nag, But<br/> Sometimes You Make It Hard<br/> It’s a common myth that women like to<br/> nag their husbands. That’s not entirely<br/> true.<br/> Yes, there are some people (men and<br/> women) whom you can never please.<br/> No matter what you do, they’ll always<br/> find fault in something. Let’s be<br/> reminded of the following hadith:<br/> Narrated Ibn ‘Abbas: The Prophet said:<br/> “I was shown the Hell-fire and that the<br/> majority of its dwellers were women<br/> who were ungrateful.” It was asked,<br/> “Do they disbelieve in Allah?” (or are<br/> they ungrateful to Allah?) He replied,<br/> “They are ungrateful to their husbands<br/> and are ungrateful for the favors and<br/> the good (charitable deeds) done to<br/> them. If you have always been good<br/> (benevolent) to one of them and then<br/> she sees something in you (not of her<br/> liking), she will say, ‘I have never<br/> received any good from you.” – Sahih<br/> Bukhari.<br/> So, yes sisters should be careful about<br/> denegrating the things your husband<br/> does for you.<br/> But very often, you brother, make it<br/> hard for her to hold your tongue.<br/> Perhaps you’re always finding fault with<br/> her and she looks for things in your<br/> character to get even.<br/> Perhaps you’re not working (or not<br/> working hard enough) and she has to<br/> work to take up some slack.<br/> Perhaps you’re just not that great of a<br/> guy.<br/> Once again, upgrade yourself and give<br/> her less reasons to complain and nag.<br/> 7. More Than Anything, She Wants a<br/> Stable, Happy Relationship With You<br/> Women don’t get married just because<br/> they think it’s gonna be fun.<br/> They get married because they want a<br/> happy family life and they believe you’re<br/> gonna give it to them.<br/> Outside of her religious duties, that’s<br/> the most important thing in a Muslim<br/> woman’s life. Raising a happy, stable,<br/> Muslim family.<br/> The funny thing is, it’s very easy for you<br/> to give that to her.<br/> Stop acting like a jerk. Be a good<br/> husband to her. Be kind. Show her you<br/> love her.<br/> Don’t threaten her with divorce or<br/> taking a second wife. Yes, you have the<br/> right to do both. But using them as<br/> threats is inappropriate and detrimental<br/> to your marriage.<br/> Trust in Allah, watch out for the tricks of<br/> Shaytan, and be patient with her.<br/> There’s nothing Shaytan would love<br/> more than to destroy your marriage.</div>

SEVEN THINGS YOUR MUSLIM WIFE WON'T TELL YOU

7 Things your Muslim wife won’t tell you Most men have a hard time understanding women. Even a woman they’ve been married to for years. ...

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25 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY

<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>25 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY<br/> 1. Always seek and respect his opinions on your<br/> aspirations,dreams and plans,be open to him.<br/> 2. Learn to study his mood and appropriate time<br/> to start discussion on issues.<br/> 3. Never disrespect him in the presence of<br/> people,otherwise you wil loose his respect.<br/> 4. Discover his sexual need and make it<br/> pleasurable.<br/> 5. Be transparent and trustworthy,you will win his<br/> confidence.<br/> 6. Admit your mustakes and always be humble<br/> enough to apologize.<br/> 7. Learn to be submissive to your husband<br/> irrespective of your status.<br/> 8. Learn how to use facial and verbal expressions<br/> and tone of voice to show that you value him.<br/> 9. Avoid nagging,it brews resentment.<br/> 10. Support him financially as much as you can<br/> but dont boast of it, Allah does not like vain<br/> glorious boasters.<br/> 11. Always appreciate him for everything he has<br/> done to the family,with gratitude,you earn more.<br/> 12. Offer him useful advice but don't impose<br/> any,he will respect your wisdom.<br/> 13. Be polite to his friends without overdoing it.<br/> 14. Choose your words carefully when you are<br/> angry,because tongue is the greatest weapons of<br/> shaytan to cause disunity.<br/> 15. Pray for him on a daily basis,because the<br/> prayers of two lovers are quickly answerd.<br/> 16. Don't let work take over your life,create<br/> leisure time for sporting,recreation and time for<br/> your husband.<br/> 17. Always be clean and compliment his good<br/> dress sense.He will appreciate your femininity.<br/> 18. Get rid of bad habits that annoy him.<br/> 19. Don't be sarcastic and high handed while<br/> pointing out his faults.<br/> 20. Don't belittle his masculine characteristics by<br/> treating him as if he is stupid.<br/> 21. Be forgiving when he offends you, Allah is<br/> Most Forgiving.<br/> 22. Comfort him when he fails but don't criticize<br/> or blame him. No one is Immaculate<br/> 24. Always prepare appetizing meals to glue him<br/> to the meals at home.<br/> 25. Be motherly to him and the children,because<br/> you are the home builder.<br/> May Allah make it easy</div>

25 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY

25 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR HUSBAND HAPPY 1. Always seek and respect his opinions on your aspirations,dreams and plans,be open to him. 2. Learn ...

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15 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR WIFE HAPPY

<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>15 WAYS TO MAKE YOUE WIFE HAPPY<br/> 1. Be dutiful and faithful in discharging your<br/> financial responsibilities.<br/> 2. Discover your wife's distinctive needs and<br/> hearken towards it.<br/> 3. Plan your future together and encourage your<br/> wife to progress in her career.<br/> 4. Speak well of her to others,especially your<br/> extended family.<br/> 5. Learn to respond calmly even in a stressful<br/> situation.<br/> 6. Learn to give her gift occassionally as such<br/> renews love.<br/> 7. Go for romantic outings and shopping together<br/> as much as you can.<br/> 8. Be large hearted when she displays her<br/> feminine tendencies.<br/> 9. Always appreciate her good deeds.<br/> 10. Be sympathetic and caring when she is ill and<br/> treat her like a baby.<br/> 11. Always tell her '' I LOVE YOU''.<br/> 12. Play down her weakness and project her<br/> strenght.<br/> 13. Don't meddle into her personal business such<br/> as kitchen management.<br/> 15. Treat her as a queen with kindness and<br/> humour</div>

15 WAYS TO MAKE YOUR WIFE HAPPY

15 WAYS TO MAKE YOUE WIFE HAPPY 1. Be dutiful and faithful in discharging your financial responsibilities. 2. Discover your wife's di...

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HOW TO GAIN YOUR HUSBAND'S ATTENTION

<div xmlns='http://www.w3.org/1999/xhtml'>HOW TO GAIN YOUR HUSBAND'S<br/> ATTENTION<br/> <br/> 1. Discover his favorite pet name and call him by that.<br/> 2. Allow him exercise his authority as the head of the family.<br/> 3. Do not challenge him when he is hurt.<br/> 4. Be silent when he is angry. You can go back to him in his sober moment with apology and explain<br/> why you behave that way that annoyed him.<br/> 5. Be quick to say ” I am sorry dear”. Whenever u offend him, insist on his forgiveness and kiss him when he does.<br/> 6. Speak good of him before his friends n siblings.<br/> 7. Honour his mother.<br/> 8. Insist that he buys gift to his parents and so be<br/> sure that he will do same for your parents<br/> 9. Surprise him with his favorite dish especially when he has no enough money at hand<br/> 10. Do not allow maid to serve him food when you are at home, because you may lose him to them.<br/> 11. Give him warm reception with an embrace when he returns, collect his luggage and help Unclothe him.<br/> 12. Smile when u looks at him and give him occasional perks when u are out socially.<br/> 13. Praise him before your children.<br/> 14. Wash his back while he is in the tub or shower.<br/> 15. Put love note in his lunch or purse.<br/> 16. Phone and tell him that you miss him.<br/> 17. Dial his number and on hearing “hello” just tell him I love you<br/> 18. If he is a public figure or politician, gently wake<br/> him at the early hours of the morning and romance<br/> him to the point of demand. He will not be enticed by any other woman that day.<br/> 19. Tell him how lucky you are to have him as your husband.<br/> 20. Give him a hug for no reason.<br/> 21. Appreciate God for the Adam of your life.Implement this law that every morning your family will wake up and pray. It brings unity. <br/> Value your husband because you may not have the second chance to love him. <br/> Pray to God to protect him. If u practice all these, your husband will be afraid to cheat on you, even if he does his mind will not be at rest. If your husband is already cheating on u. Begin to practice these and u will win him back.<br/> Do support it with prayers because nothing is impossible 4 God. I wish you a happy home and lovable husband</div>

HOW TO GAIN YOUR HUSBAND'S ATTENTION

HOW TO GAIN YOUR HUSBAND'S ATTENTION 1. Discover his favorite pet name and call him by that. 2. Allow him exercise his authority as ...

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